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                                                By Laura Landes



            t has been known for many        support, and empowerment for
            years that the Aftercare and     the families we serve, as well as          in memory of
         ICommunity Programs offered by      our senior community.                  Hal Rowe  1940-2012
         Lake Ridge Chapel and Memorial
         Designers are in no way “run of     Over the years, and much to our     “game days,” dinners, and outings,
         the mill” and are most often, life-  delight, we have witnessed several   unbeknownst to one another, Joyce
         changing, at the very least.  From   love stories that have blossomed   and Keith’s paths eventually crossed,
         providing hope where all hope seems   from these programs. It is only   and a friendship blossomed.
         lost, to providing a platform for   natural, at some point, to once
         education and an atmosphere where   again long for deeper connections.   One afternoon in September 2019,
         lifelong relationships are created,   The following story is special to   Joyce was given four tickets to the
         these programs provide a safety net,   me, personally, in many ways, as   Cactus Theater, so she asked around
                                              it happens to involve one of our   to see who would like to accompany
                                              LRCMD Team members.                her to the event. By chance or by
                                                                                 fate, it happened that Keith was
                                              Joyce Rowe has served at Lake      the only person who had no other
                                              Ridge Chapel for the past ten years   plans for the evening. Even though
                                              in many capacities and, for the    the thought of just the two of them
                                              past five years, as our facilitator   attending the event together made
                                              for “Hope for the Hurt Heart,” our   them a bit apprehensive, they agreed
                                              aftercare program that specializes   to attend. As Joyce recalls, “When
                                              in grieving parents who have lost a   Keith asked where he could pick me
                                              child. Joyce lost two children of her   up, I suggested the parking lot of
                                              own, as well as her husband Hal in   Lake Ridge Chapel because I knew
                                              2012. It was then that she became   there were security cameras!” Later,
                                              a member of our widows’ group,     they discovered that they lived
                                              “The Ladies of Lake Ridge.”        within a few blocks of one another.
                                              Keith Hewett, a member of our Lake   As time passed, their contact was
                                              Ridge Family, lost his wife, Nancy,   limited mostly to group gatherings
                                              in January of 2018 and immediately   at the chapel, until May 2020, when
                                              became a member of “The Lake
                   in memory of               Ridge Men.”  Because our groups    the mandatory COVID lockdown
            Nancy Hewett  1939-2019           frequently come together for       was in full swing.  During that time,
                                                                                 Joyce began calling some of the men



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