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for Gwen’s father at Daffern Steel,
                                                                                while finishing Wayland in 1973
                                                                                with degrees in Sociology and
                                                                                Psychology. He worked almost
                                                                                a year for Child Welfare, then he
                                                                                and Gwen became dorm parents
                                                                                at Cal Farley’s Boys’ Ranch for two
                                                                                years. It was a difficult job, but
                                                                                they have very fond memories of
                                                                                it. They were givers.

                                                                                After that chapter, they moved
                                                                                back to Plainview where Gwen
                                                                                taught first and second grade
                                                                                at College Hill Elementary, and
                                                                                Fred worked at Daffern Steel for
                                                                                another 35 years. They raised a
                                                                                daughter, Kathi, and a son, Chris,
           Gwen’s classmate got the offer,   “conned her dad” into letting them   who have blessed them with three
           while Gwen did not, until it was   get married July 26, 1969. After   granddaughters and a grandson.
           too late. She had already signed a   eight months in D.C., Fred was   During those years, they became
           contract to teach at Hurst, Fred’s   shipped to Germany, where he    active in First Baptist Church,
           hometown. He completed his        was part of the Pershing Missile   where Gwen’s folks attended.
           requisite two years at Wayland    Program. Gwen joined him there     Gwen has taught various Sunday
           and moved home. She lived         for two months the following       School classes, from all ages of
           in North Richland Hills, and      summer. His enlistment was up      children to the 80+ ladies’ class.
           Fred worked in Ft. Worth until    in November 1970, after which he   Fred again instructed boys from
           the Army got hold of him in       was discharged as a Specialist E5.  4th – 6th grade and even some
           November 1968. On Halloween,                                         high schoolers. The couple is
           before leaving for Fort Bliss,    The couple made their home in      devoted.
           El Paso, Fred gave Gwen a gift    Plainview, where Fred worked
           in a box with a black
           cat sticker. It was an
           engagement ring, which
           she accepted because, by
           that time, she knew that
           she loved him. “He was
           good-looking, quiet, and
           definitely not pushy.”

           However, there was
           no going forward with
           marriage until his Army
           stint was completed.
           Many more letters were
           exchanged as Fred
           finished almost a year
           at Ft. Belvoir near D.C.
           When it became obvious
           that Fred wouldn’t be
           going to Vietnam, they




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