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70years                                             A ‘BIG DEAL’ for
             70




                                                                the Bighams



              of Marriage: of  New Deal




              by granddaughter Cari Hughes: Director of Nursing for Primrose Retirement Communities



                                                                              started her career at the local post
                                                                              office. The couple welcomed their
                                                                              first child, a son, Steve, in 1953.
                                                                              By 1958, Burly and Fern had three
                                                                              children—sons, Steve and Bill and
                                                                              a daughter, Belinda. Together,
                                                                              with three children in tow and
                                                                              one on the way, they picked up
                                                                              from Lefors and moved their
                                                                              family to Lubbock, chasing the
                                             football, basketball, track,
                                             boxing, volleyball, cheer,       ready-built industry. The family
                                             FHA, newspaper staff, student    of seven was soon complete
                                             government, and just about       with the birth of two more
                                             all the activities offered in the   daughters, Cindy in 1958 and
                                             small community at that time.    Lori in 1963. While in Lubbock,
                                             The two graduated in 1952—in     the house moving business grew
                  urly and Fern met while    a class of 33 students. Following   successfully, and Fern was able to
                                                                              be a housewife while the children
                  attending Lefors (TX)      graduation, Burly and Fern       attended New Deal ISD.
             BHigh School, southeast of      got married in an intimate but
             Pampa. Fern recalls the first time   crowded service held in the home   Though a housewife, Fern did
             she saw Burly while sitting in her   of Fern’s parents. They became   not spend much time at home
             English classroom. She looked   one of three couples from the    during those days, as she found
             up and saw a “tall, dark and    class of 1952 to marry their high   herself heading up the New Deal
             handsome young man standing     school sweethearts that year. In   Athletic Boosters, alongside her
             in the doorway.” It was then that   fact, all three couples are still   dear friend, Barbara Anglin.
             she knew that Burly was the one   great friends who continue to   Together the two ran concession
             for her. Burly, too, was drawn   keep in contact with one another   stands, drove cheerleaders to and
             to Fern, stating that “she was a   and who recently reconnected in   from games and were known to
             different kind of looker.” He, of   August of 2022 to catch up on life.   be at any and every function in
             course, translated this to mean   Amazingly, all three couples lived   the community, supporting their
             that Fern was good-looking. Burly  to celebrate their 70th wedding   children.
             and Fern dated throughout their   anniversaries this year!
             Junior and Senior years.                                         The family also made up a big
                                             After the wedding, Burly         part of Sunrise Church of Christ,
             Burly and Fern participated     continued to work for the family   where Burly served in leadership
             in many activities while        business, WK Bigham and Sons     for many years. Many enduring
             attending Lefors, including     House Moving, while Fern         and cherished relationships



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