Page 35 - Lubbock Senior Link Magazine Summer 2022 - Online Magazine
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AN INVISIBLE THREAD
                                                               by Sonja Mitchell




                                                                                 three, our backyard served as the
                                                                                 arena for years of target practice.
                                                                                 Cardboard boxes, wooden planks,
                                                                                 and bottles all ended up as shreds
                                                                                 and shards as Trae practiced
                                                                                 throwing and shooting every kind
                                                                                 of “weapon” he could find. He
                                                                                 entered the Navy right after high
                                                                                 school graduation. Just days after
                                                                                 completing boot camp, Hurricane
                                                                                 Hugo hit South Carolina, and his
                                                                                 ship, the USS Sierra, deployed to
                                                                                 assist in clean-up, restoration, and
                                                                                 security. When Operation Desert
                                                                                 Storm commenced, 100% of our
                                                                                 immediate family was enlisted in
                                                                                 service to our country—Jack and I
                                                                                 with the Sheriff's Department, and
                                                                                 Jeff, Chrystle, and Trae in the Navy.
            Officer Ralph McDougle           Officer Neal Estes
          My grandfather, Neal Estes, and     as Air Warfare Specialists. When   After Trae was discharged, he
          father, Ralph McDougle, were both   Josh finished college, the family   was hired by the Lubbock County
          Lubbock police officers. Jack is an   moved to the Washington D.C.     Sheriff’s Department (LSO), where
          Army veteran and a veteran of LPD   area, and Josh, Jamie and our great   he served for 24 years. During that
          and LSO, where I also served. Our   granddaughter, Lila, live close by.   time, he filled many positions; one
          children followed us into service,   Currently, Chrystle is the Section   of his favorites was in the canine
          and now our grandchildren are       Chief for Homeland Security        unit. He and Marko made many
          assuming those roles. Whether it is   Investigations Victim Assistant   drug busts, amassing a plethora
          genetics or environment, a desire to   Program, where
          help people binds us together like   she conducts
          an invisible thread.                forensic
                                              interviews and
          Our daughter, Chrystle enlisted     supervises over
          in the Navy and trained as an Air   60 specialists.
          Traffic Controller. She met and     Compassion,
          married Jeffery Abbott, who was     experience, and
          also an ATC. In 2001, Chrystle was   expertise are the
          stationed aboard the USS Iwo Jima   foundation of her
          which was so new that she is a      career.
          “plank holder.” The ship was sent
          to New York City immediately after   Our son, Jack
          9/11, an experience that is forever   Keith Mitchell
          embedded in her memory. During      III (Trae), has
          a tour of duty in Iceland, our first   been preparing
          grandson, Joshua was born (giving   for a career in
          him dual citizenship.)              law enforcement
                                              from the
          After 21 years, Jeff and Chrystle   beginning. By
          retired from exemplary careers      the time he was    Chrystle and Jeff Abbott





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