Page 12 - Summer 2019 - Lubbock Senior Link Magazine - Online Magazine
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HONORING SENIORS







      A Guide for






        Grieving





           Hearts









                    by Mary Kay Stone



















               t all started on a lazy Sunday   the window at my eight-year-old    But healing is possible, and The
               afternoon. My husband and       son playing in the yard, I called   Shepherd is good. In the weeks and
               our two older boys ventured     our parents to let them know the    months that followed, I discovered
           Iout with a family friend on        terrible news. Soon they arrived    simple tools to soothe my aching
           an impromptu camping trip to        along with many dear friends        soul in the valley of the shadow.
           the mountains of northern New       ready to wrap us in prayerful love.
           Mexico. They were excited about                                         How do you heal a broken heart?
           one last get away before school     This was not a new experience,      How do you say goodbye to
           started. Our youngest son and       and we knew the drill. In the       someone you love? What does it
           I stayed home to enjoy a slow       previous five years, I lost my father   take to keep going through those
           weekend. Suddenly, the phone        because of lung disease and my      long days and nights of grief? If
           rang, and our lives changed         older brother through suicide. Each   these questions sound familiar
           forever! Oh God, no! What did you   loss was different and required an   or if you know someone who is
           say? Can this be true? This can’t   honest and courageous healing       going through the sadness of loss,
           be happening. The mountain, a       journey. This one would prove to    be encouraged.  It is possible to
           storm, a lightning strike! What are   be the hardest. My three sons and   heal a grieving heart. It takes time,
           you saying? My husband, gone?       I would never be the same. Broken   simple care, and the kindness of a
           How can this be? Looking out        hearts take a lot of time to heal.   Shepherd.





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