Page 40 - Senior Link Magazine Winter 2018- Online Magazine
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Doris died in 2007 after suffering   and mentor to young parents, and
                                          from Alzheimer’s for several years.   physician and care giver to thousands
                                          Dr. Holmes had a heart attack in     of “littles” on the South Plains. The
                                          2001. After he recovered, he made the   community of Lubbock owes a debt
                                          choice to move to Carillon. Over and   of gratitude for the contribution this          Levelland’s Hundred-Year
                                          over he’s heard, “What a wonderful   wise and gentle doctor made to its
                                          gift you gave your children.” After   children and their parents.
                                          living at Carillon for 16 years, he says,                                                                              Hall of Famer
                                          “It’s been a very good choice. I eat
                                          properly . . . I have transportation
                                          . . . people check on me. I’m sure it
                                          has increased my lifespan by several
                                          years.”

                                          T.H. Holmes smiles when he talks
                                          about the children he cared for.
                                          He relished his role as teacher



             Dr. Holmes was the beloved pediatrician of the author’s husband and the obvious choice to care for our four
             children. We witnessed firsthand his love for the littlest of Lubbock.


           Dr. Steve Holmes

           Dad relished teaching new mothers, and he was truly devoted to his patients. But the real love story of his life
           revolves around my mother. I have never known a man more dedicated to his wife. He loved her wholly, in sickness
           and in health, even after she was totally incapacitated by Alzheimer’s for years and years and years.

           Barbara Holmes Fish

           Dad was very strict when we were growing up. I noticed, however, after I started working in his office in the seventh
           grade, that a lot of people thought he was amazing. After I had my own baby, I thought, “Wow! He really does love
           kids, and he is so good with them.” For years, everywhere we went people would recognize him, and I began to fully
           appreciate how well loved he is by this community.

           Stephanie Holmes

           He’s Granddaddy! That’s what we call him - my sister Jennifer and I, and our cousins Mitchell and Jessica. We each
           have a very distinct and unique relationship with him, and of course we are ALL his favorite “one.”

           One of my favorite things about Granddaddy is... (listening to his) astounding ability to recount details of his entire
           life’s history. To listen to him talk about his life is paramount to reading a novel by some great author.

           My grandfather is a pillar of strength and stability. He’s humble, yet direct and outspoken. And when he laughs, you
           know you’ve hit home. I could spend days listening to him answer my unending questions. What is most profound
           is to hear him speak about his love for my grandmother, and his love for his medical practice. We called her Momo,
           our grandmother. When I was a child, they were just Momo and Granddaddy - a constant presence about which I
           had zero perspective. As an adult, it is clear that a love like theirs comes once in a lifetime, if you’re lucky. Etched
           into my memory is his account of their meeting, his courtship of her, his respect of her, his true partnership with
           her, his parenting journey with her, and his relentless devotion to her. They were married 63 years, 8 months, and 11
           days.

           Perhaps the young people in our world can learn something from a man like my grandfather. He has strong
           opinions...which (they might) not understand. But what you will find in Granddaddy is love, loyalty, service,
           kindness, compassion, strength, and the greatest of character.



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