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Army
           my leadership style                                    Today, Gary and his lovely
           and philosophy.”                                       wife reside on a small East
                                                                  Texas ranch, where they look after some horses and
           While serving at                                       a small herd of cattle. Unfortunately, Gary has a new
           the Pentagon as the                                    type of cancer.  His faith and dependence on God is his
           Chief, Weapons of                                      greatest defense. “God will see me through this trial to
           Mass Destruction                                       His conclusion and in His timing.”
           Branch, Domestic
           Preparedness
           Division, Operations
           Directorate, Deputy
           Chief of Staff
           Operations (G3), Headquarters Department of the
           Army,  Col. Wallace provided “direct oversight for the
           Secretary of Defense of the congressionally-mandated
           program to train elected leaders, law enforcement, fire
           departments, and emergency medical personnel in the
           largest 120 US cities, in how to manage and respond
           to terrorist attacks using radiological, chemical, and
           biological weapons.”

           As Col. Wallace was training others in defense of our
           nation, God was revealing His defense strategy against
           Gary’s most deadly enemy … cancer. At the age of
           42, Gary was diagnosed with Stage IV Non-Hodgkins
           Lymphoma. God defended and carried Gary through
           two major abdominal surgeries, 18 weeks of intense
           chemotherapy, a two-month hospital stay, and a
           lengthy nine-month recovery. The doctor’s words, “You
           have cancer,” hit him hard.  “My world just got more
           scary, confusing, and uncertain … I knew I needed
           to be closer to God.” Gary confesses, “I needed more
           than just knowledge. I began studying to increase my
           knowledge, but mostly built a personal relationship
           with Jesus.” God used a former Army nurse to remind
           Gary that he was going to be okay … that God loved
           him.  The Psalmist writes, “Defend my cause and redeem
           me; preserve my life ...” (Psalm 119:154).  And God did
           just that.  He defended and preserved Gary’s life.

           The support of family and friends helped. “My parents
           respected my decision to serve and …were always
           supportive.” The same was true of his brother and
           sister; daughters, Sarah and Jill; wife, Belinda; and other
           family members. "Knowing I had a supportive family
           was encouraging to me as a professional Soldier.”



                Cousin Gary and I were childhood playmates on
                the Bar W Ranch. Our imaginations created make-
                believe games and strategies that kept us entertained
                on long hot summer days. In addition to playing
                cowboys and Indians, I vividly remember Gary’s not-
                so-small collection of army-green plastic toy soldiers.
                ~ Barbara




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