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HONORING SENIORS


         Be Proactive Against Loneliness




         by Jan D’Orsay



























         Corona virus has caused a lot of problems, and one of those problems is loneliness.  Many of us have felt very isolated, separated
         and alone. It has been hard. Phone calls and “virtual” visiting through Zoom, FaceTime and other formats have certainly been
         helpful. How thankful we are to be able to visit more normally now, but loneliness remains a problem.  Let us consider some very
         practical ways to combat loneliness.

         *FIND NEW FRIENDS WHO               information. You can also google     and fresh air. If you don’t have a pet,
         SHARE AN INTEREST OR HOBBY.         and find information about your      you might consider adopting one.
         There are many groups in our area   specific interest. Again, you will
         who would love new members.         meet new people and will be          Sometimes, isolation and depression
         Such groups include photography,    contributing in a significant way.   combine to create levels of
         model railroading, book clubs, Bible                                     loneliness that require professional
         studies, genealogy, public speaking,   *GET MOVING.                      assistance.  At times, counselling or
         and astronomy, just to name a few.    We know that exercise releases     psychotherapy is needed. There are
         I have made many friends through    endorphins which raise our mood.     many therapists in the Lubbock area
         groups I have been involved in.  Not   Getting out for a walk or going to   who can help. Some agencies charge
         only will you meet new people, you   the gym is a great way to lift our   based on your ability to pay; if you
         will learn new things that will enrich   spirits. You will find companions   feel like you need help, please reach
         your life.                          who also enjoy exercising, and this   out.
                                             can encourage us to stay active.
         *VOLUNTEER.                                                              There is also a hotline you can call:
         It feels so good to reach out to    *WALK YOUR DOG!                      Substance Abuse and Mental Health
         others and make a difference in     Pets can provide a lot of love,      Services Administration (SAMHSA)
         our world!  Numerous groups         fun, and companionship. Dogs         National Hotline.  Their number is
         love volunteers – groups such       and cats are especially suited       1-800-662-4357.
         as the South Plains Food Bank,      to be our buddies. They love us
         Lubbock Meals on Wheels, hospices,   unconditionally and taking care of   I hope these ideas will help you
         churches, hospitals, animal shelters,   them gives us purpose and focus.   combat loneliness. It is important
         and nursing homes. There are many   While walking your dog, you may      to know that you are NOT ALONE,
         other options. Volunteer Center of   meet others who love dogs, in       and there are things you can do to
         Lubbock can provide additional      addition to getting some exercise    feel more linked with others.




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