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think. He knew, along with his team,
        Thirteen coaching stints over four   the school and the city of Odessa
        decades had a big impact on the     that the book was not an accurate
        family, but Sharon was always       portrayal. In 1989, the Permian
        supportive. Her friend, Linda       Panthers won 16 games in a row.
        Voss, writes, “Sharon’s love for    They were featured on ESPN and
        Gary provided the encouragement     received state and national honors.
        he needed to be successful, and     His record spoke for itself, and Gary
        it was also evident to the teams    and Sharon did not let the book
        he coached. She always made her     define them. Gary had gotten to live
        way to the field or to the buses to   his dream, and Sharon reports, “The
        celebrate wins or console losses.   people who knew him knew who he
        Bradley and Nicole were always      was. He was so humble – he always
        there, and when they grew up        gave credit to his coaches and his
        and had families of their own, the   players.”
        grandchildren loved supporting
        their Grandy in ‘Gaines Grandkid’   The Gaines moved back to
        jerseys. Each new coaching position   Lubbock in 2012. They have five
        meant a new town, new jobs, and     grandchildren: Ainsley Gaines and
        new friends. Sharon never had       Avery, Bailey, Parker and Jude       support her husband of 49½ years.
        trouble finding a job in education   Strader and were looking forward    Linda observes, “Sharon continues
        because she was an asset to every   to spending more time with them.     to stay by his side. When he looks at
        campus. She was an amazing          But Sharon noticed some distressing   her, you can still see his love for her
        teacher with a deep desire to help   symptoms almost immediately after   in his eyes.” Even now, he is still the
        children.”                          her husband
                                            retired.
        When Gary was at Permian High
        School in 1988, he was approached   Gary began to
        by a “journalist” interested in     display signs of
        writing a book about Texas football   memory loss.
        - similar to “Hoosiers” - which told   Now Sharon is
        an inspiring story of a high school   dealing with
        basketball team. Coach Gaines was   the biggest
        skeptical at first but eventually let   challenge of her
        him have an inside look. Gary was   life. The man
        very proud of his school, his team   who always
        and their families. Odessa Permian   made her knees
        was known for excellence. The       weak and her
        journalist from Philadelphia worked   heart pound is
        himself in, spent time in the locker   slipping away.
        room, on the field, in homes and    These days,
        eventually wrote his book. But he   her greatest
        had misled everyone. He spun facts   joy is when
        into a documentary called “Friday   “the light bulb
        Night Lights”. He later apologized   comes on and
        to Gary, admitting that he had lied   he recognizes
        to make the book as controversial as   me.” It has
        possible to please the publisher.   been a difficult
                                            journey,
        Coach Gaines was devastated. He     but Sharon
        worried about what people would     continues to





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