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THE NELSON SISTERS



         A Birthday Party with Homework?





          by Jane Bromley                     and sister-in-law
                                              Tricia generously
                                              offered to host in
                                              Midland. I was
                                              overwhelmed
                                              at the thought
                                              of seeing all my
                                              “sissies” in one
                                              place - the first
                                              time since our
                                              dad’s funeral in
                                              2015. Mary came
                                              from Alaska,
                                              Maggie and Cate                     and every meal remains a delectable
                                              from Colorado, Laura from Nevada    memory.
                                              and Teresa from Alabama. A couple
                                              of bonus brothers were also able to   We took pictures and played games,
                                              make the trip. Joe with wife Matty   including dodgeball on our old
                                              and new baby Jack came from         elementary school playground,
                enerally, people spend more   Colorado, and John flew down from   and drove down Memory Lane.
                years of their lives with     Seattle.                            We tried water aerobics and paddle
         Gsiblings than with either                                               boarding. We talked and laughed
         their parents or their children. It’s   Dan and Tricia, the consummate   and reminisced late into the night.
         a blessing when those fraternal      host and hostess, housed all eleven   My daughter and son-in-law drove
         relationships are ruled by love.     of us in their recently empty nest.   two hours each way with their six
                                              My sisters were the sous chefs for   children to add to the fun. (Four of
         Since families are made up of        Tricia’s mad gourmet kitchen skills,   my five sisters even got to come to
         humans, no individual relationship
         is perfect. Our family has its share
         of messiness, multiplied by 13. My
         parents had seven sons and six
         daughters in 14 1/2 years. Mom
         and Dad are gone now, so we
         are beginning to appreciate the
         “horizontal” relationships.

         I am the oldest, and my recent 65th
         birthday inspired my sister Laura
         (the seventh and middle child)
         to look for a way to celebrate the
         occasion. She contacted our sisters
         and sisters-in-law and organized
         a birthday weekend. Brother Dan





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