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HONORING J.T. & MARGARET

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           TALKINGTON FOUNDATION: A HAND UP FOR SINGLE MOTHERS                        BY RUSS DILDAY


                                               bad, she said, “We couldn’t even    Now 23, Breanae has been in
                                               afford food. I love my son. I wanted   the program for a year.  She is a
                                               it to be me and him. No matter what   computer engineering student with a
                                               we did, I wanted it to be me and    3.5 grade-point-average at Tech. And
                                               him.”                               she’s found a home at Pathways.
                                               Fortunately, Buckner Family         “The apartment I have is a two
                                               Pathways of Lubbock offered her     bedroom,” she explained. “Maddex
                                               a third choice. Buckner Family      has his own room. This is our home,
                                               Pathways is a place in Lubbock that   (but) it’s more than you live here and
                                               helps single parents strengthen     go to school. You become a better
                                               their families and reduce barriers   person. You become a better mom.”
          Last year, Breanae, a young mom,     to self-sufficiency, such as a lack of   “Family Pathways allowed me to
          found herself in what seemed to be   education and life skills.          do my studies and still be a mom
          a no-win situation, common among     Program Director Sharion Stephens   for Maddex,” she said. “We now
          many working, single parents. As     said Family Pathways “protects      can eat. Sharion is a friend who has
          a junior college student working to   single parents earning an education   really helped counsel me financially,
          enroll at Texas Tech, she knew she   by providing housing, access to child   helping me set my personal goals.
          needed a four-year college education   care assistance and a variety of other   She taught me how to cook and
          to support herself and her then-     services. We do all of this to protect   budget.”
          infant son, Maddex. But the financial   families from domestic abuse,
          pressures of caring for her small    financial uncertainty, homelessness   She’s also grown spiritually, an
          family, while trying to continue her   and hopelessness.”                essential part of the Buckner
          studies, were too much.              A counselor at Tech suggested       program. “Spiritually, I have more
                                                                                   trust in God. I used to think God
          The no-win situation reached its     Breanae apply for a spot in the     let bad thigs happen to me.  Now
          peak when Breanae had to make a      Pathways program. With no           I know that He doesn’t make bad
          hard decision: drop out and care for   vacancies, it took almost a year for   things happen; He gets you through
          her son on low wages or focus on     her to be admitted. But it proved to   those tough times.”
          her studies and place Maddex with    be a turning point in her life.
          relatives. Her situation became so

                                                  Talkington Foundation: A ‘Big Part’ of the Successes



                                                   “Buckner Family Pathways can only achieve successes like Brea’s
                                                   through supporters like the J.T. and Margaret Talkington Charitable
                                                   Foundation,” notes Buckner Gift Officer, Denese Thetford. “The
                                                   Talkington Foundation has supported Pathways through a significant
                                                   endowment, giving these local, single parents stability and the ability
                                                   to support their families through education. They are a big part of the
                                                   mix.”
                                                   Kathy McGee, Senior Executive Director for Buckner Children and
                                                   Family Services in West Texas, agreed. “We have seen many young



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