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Give a


                                          Lasting Legacy




                                            by Dionne Merriott



                                                                 most to you and your loved ones.  This Christmas,
                                                                 give a gift that you can’t wait for your family to
                                                                 open - a gift that connects generations.


                                                                    Here are a few ideas about sharing and
                                                                    preserving your family memories:
                                                                    1. SEARCH for all your photos.  Frames, boxes, and
                                                                    closets may be holding treasures – as well as your phone
                                                                    and computer.
                                                                    2. SORT your photos.  Don’t get bogged down with
            Christmas is just around the corner. Would you like     dates.  Look for themes in your photos such as branches of
            to  give  the  gift  of  a  lifetime?  How  about  giving   your family, vacations, holidays, and birthdays.
            the gift of a legacy? I don’t mean the boxes and        3. SAVE for the future.  I can help you make sure your
            bags of photos that may be stuck in a closet, but       photos will be around for generations through scanning
            your favorite photos combined with their stories. A     printed photos and using secure, easily accessible back-ups.
            thoughtful collection of pictures and words would       4. SHARE with your family.  When you give the gift of
            be really precious to your family. Your photos,         organized, meaningful photos, it’s a gift to yourself, too.
            along with the stories behind them, can become a
            meaningful, cherished gift this Christmas.

            Photos connect families, but they can also heap
            piles of guilt on you, when they are a disorganized
            mess.  Recently, a friend of mine commented that
            she simply did not have room for all the boxes of
            family photos.  When you get to that point with
            your photos, you may see them as a burden, not a
            blessing.  Yet, your family history is in those boxes!


            This is a photo of my grandfather, his grandsons,
            and great grandsons.  It was a special photo when
            it was taken 20 years ago, but now it is part of a
            bigger  story  –  the  story  of  my  grandfather’s  life.
            These grandsons and even great grandsons are all
            married now.  After my grandfather’s death, my
            mother and I took this and many other photos and
            created  a  book  filled  with  memories  and  stories
            –  his  legacy.    His  story  is  a  treasure  that  connects
            generations of our family.

            What can you do to encourage this connection in
            your family?  Keep the things you care about. Care
            about the things you keep.  What does this mean?
            If there is a photo that you care about, enjoy it in
            a way that shows that you care.  If you don’t care
            about a photo, give yourself permission to not keep
            it.  This leaves only the photos you treasure and
            enjoy!

            Now, you are ready to take those photos that really
            matter and put them with the stories that mean the
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