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                                            "Nonny" Through My Eyes







                                                                                                      by Emily Hall




                                                        My Nonny            as a teenager. It is obvious that adult
                                                        exemplifies         chaperoning occurred more often in
                                                        genuine             her generation than in mine. When
                                                        happiness! She      we spend time together we discuss
                                                        radiates love and   today’s clothing, dating, and academic
                                                        kindness, and       opportunities. Most of our conversations
                                                        when we are         focus on clothing and dating, of course!
                                                        together we are     She is amazed at the style of clothing
                                                        usually laughing.   worn and accepted in public. She shares
                                                        In fact, one of us   how drastically fashion has changed
                                                        has been known      over the years. In fact, the clothing
                                                        to wet our pants    popularized in my generation likely
                                                        from laughing       does not pass the modesty test of my
                                                        so hard!   While    grandmother’s generation. Today’s
                                                        differences exist   dress lengths, bikinis, and crop tops are
                                   in our generations we are still able to   more than likely causing many heart
                                   connect in ways that even time cannot    palpitations for her generation. Dating
                                   change. When she shares her stories,     is another hot topic for us.  While she
                                   I am able to view life from a different   provides beneficial dating advice, it is
                                   perspective.  She has made me more       somewhat challenging to apply in my
                                   open-minded.  Nonny emphasizes the       life. She encourages me to “play the
                                   importance of family and personal        field” and not limit myself.   She feels this
                                   relationships with friends. She believes   is the best way to discover the qualities
                                   texting and social media are replacing   in a guy I would want to marry.   My
                                   the way people communicate and           generation views this type of dating as
                                   promoting drama. She continues to        unfavorable and mostly avoids it. Dating
                                   quiz my social etiquette awareness       etiquette has changed over the years, but
                                   and diligently makes sure I “know        Nonny continues to clarify that “girls
                                   the ways” in life! She is amazed at the   don’t call boys”.  Of course, she says I
                                   level of independence teenagers have     cannot get married until age twenty-six.
                                   today. In fact, she mentions how quickly   As I prepare to attend Texas Tech in the
                                   teenagers move into the workforce and    fall, Nonny encourages me to discover
                                   have access to transportation. She sees   my interests and pursue my dreams.
                                   today’s generation visit the mall, go to   She realizes many opportunities are
                                   the movies, or attend an event mostly    available for women, unlike in her time,
                                   with groups of friends or alone rather   and shares her excitement for me. I love
                                   than relying on their parents as she did   spending time with Nonny during our


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