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          LOVE STORY





          Dr. Johnny and Diane Qubty



          by Diane Qubty

               ike all young girls, I had a   was a young man and never been kissed,   love all these things about him. We
               fairy tale version of how love   I got to thinkin’ it over how much I   got engaged just before he graduated
         Land marriage should be. But a      missed, so I got me a girl and I kissed her   from high school and married in
          lifelong commitment is much more   and then, o lordy, well I kissed her again   August 1978, one week after Johnny
          difficult than just “happily ever   ….” It appeared I had caught his eye   turned 18; I was 19. “Well, I asked
          after.” Life is not a fairy tale.  as well.                            her to marry and be my sweet wife, told
                                                                                 her we’d be so happy for the rest of our
           I grew up in the small town       Johnny had spent eight of his       life….”
          of Happy. I loved God and my       15 years in Israel. His dad was
          friends and family and spent my    from Nazareth, and Johnny loved     A week later, he started at West
          time daydreaming, writing poetry,   spending time there. He had climbed   Texas State University, and I started
          plowing for my dad, and playing    pomegranate trees and played near   to work. We had plans. Johnny
          sports. When I walked into his mom   Mary’s well. He had already lived   wanted to be a doctor. His dreams
          and stepdad’s café to apply for a   in many places and dealt with his   became my dreams, but we had a
          waitress job the summer of 1975, I   parents’ divorce. He had always   long “row to hoe”! Our “honeymoon
          noticed Johnny right away. My first   been treated as an adult, always told   cottage” was a tiny one-room house
          thought was how handsome he was.   he would be a doctor, and always    that we rented for $75 a month. My
                                             worked.                             dad found us an ugly old Plymouth
          One of Johnny’s favorite songs is                                      Valiant. Ten dollars often had to last
          “Kisses Sweeter Than Wine”: “When I  As we worked together that summer,   a week. We “lived on love” because
                                              I fell in love. He was intelligent and   we didn’t have much else.
                                              respectful to his mom. He was a
                                              hard worker and a natural athlete.   We both wanted a big family, and
                                              He was attentive and romantic. I still   happily, a couple of years into our
                                                                                 marriage, I found myself pregnant.
                                                                                 We were thrilled. At 36 weeks,
                                                                                 the doctor scheduled a sonogram.
                                                                                 I’ll never forget the technician’s
                                                                                 question, “Do you want me to tell
                                                                                 you if there are two in there?”

                                                                                  Johnny was working as a janitor
                                                                                 at an elementary school nearby.
                                                                                 When I told my young husband the
                                                                                 news, he jumped for joy. That fella
                                                                                 in Johnny’s favorite song had started
           Diane's family                       Johnny and his grandfather, then   with twins. We had passed the first
                                                Mayor of Nazareth (Israel)       and second verses and were headed




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