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                                                happen to       friend” to his mother. His brothers looked up to him,
                                                me. I love      and, to this day, they say things like, ‘This is what
                                                you.” And       Rick would have done.’
                                                indeed, those   “When he was little, he used to look in the mirror and
                                                were the last   say, ‘Mom, I’m the best thing you’ve ever done.’ I
                                                words she       would laugh and ask, ‘What about the other kids?’ He
                                                ever heard      would respond, ‘We don’t need to tell them.’”
                                                him speak.
                                                                Brenda Robertson has taken life one day at a time
                                                “April’s dad    since that tragic day 15 years ago. She has helped with
            called and told me to come to Roswell, so I took off   her grandchildren and even let Ricky, Sr. move in
            work and drove down. I had gone to a convenience    with her so she could take care of him during his final
            store, and my son Daniel found me there. I could    years battling ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease). One of her
                                        tell something was      grandsons, Ethan, reminds her so much of Ricky, Jr.
                                        wrong. He said,         “He talks about his ‘Uncle Kiki’ all the time.” It gives
                                        ‘Mom, have you          her great joy to hear someone talk about him. “I just
                                        heard the news? Rick    don’t want him to be forgotten.”
                                        got killed.’ It was the
                                        hardest day of my
                                        life.” On March 6,
                                        2006, PFC Ricky Salas
                                        had died of injuries
                                        sustained during his
                                        unit’s patrol near
                                        Muhallabiyah, Iraq.
                                        “I have lost a lot of
            people in my life, but none of it compares to the pain
            of losing my son.”

            “My world ended. I had to quit school. I lost my job,
            my car, my apartment.” But life goes on, and Brenda
            Robertson somehow pulled it together. She is Nana to
            21 grandkids and is still working (these days at White
            River Lake Marina) to make ends meet. It has been 15
            years since she had a premonition in a dream of losing
            one of her children, just before Ricky was killed. She
            still doesn’t sleep through the night.

            But she is happy to talk about her son. “I like it when
            people ask about him. He was amazing. Always
            happy. Loved fireworks and the 4th of July. He
            believed in family. He helped me whenever he could.
            He would say, ‘Mom, I owe you.'" Ricky, Jr. had
            stepped up to assume the role of “man of the house”
            when his dad left, and he became more like “a best



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