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Roberto Adame
                                                     Living His Best Life

                                                     By James Villanueva





                                                    Adame added that he had      Sergeant with sixty personnel
                                                    several family members       under him. It was on this
                                                    who had served before        mission that Adame said he
                                                    him who also inspired his    had an epiphany on how he
                                                    decision, including his      would choose to live his life. He
                                                    father who served in the     said that he was helping build
                                                    Navy during WWII. His        a school when he saw a child
                                                    stepson John Flores served   with no legs in the war-torn
                                                    22 years in the US Navy.     region playing with a toy car.
                                                                                 “He was just a child,” Adame
                                                    One particular mission       said. “He was just playing with
                                                    Adame remembers fondly       his car like any other child. He
                                                    was Operation Safe Haven,    could have felt sorry for himself;
                                                    a refugee camp that housed   he could have been sad about
                                                    more than 26,000 Cuban       what had happened to him or
                                                    refugees who were rescued    where he was living, but he
                                                    from the seas after fleeing   didn’t look upset about that or
                                                    Castro’s regime. In order    question anything about it. He
                                                    to accommodate those         was just playing and living in the
                                                    leaving Cuba, Adame said     moment, and I thought, ‘Man, if
                                                    that many of the soccer      we could all just live that way.’”
                                                    fields were transformed
                                                    into camps. Aside from       Adame said that this type of
                                                    meeting the basic needs of   gratitude for living the best
                                                    the refugees, Adame said     life we’ve been given is what
                 hortly after graduating       that what was also important      helped him recently when he
                 from Lubbock High School,
            SRoberto Adame found               was making sure their social      lost his wife. Knowing his wife
                                                                                 since childhood and married for
                                               and emotional needs were met;
            himself motivated to serve         he was able to listen to many     twenty years, Adame emotionally
            his great nation by joining the    different people and relate to    said that losing his wife was his
            Army. Enlisting at the age         many of their stories. “I was     own personal war he had to face.
            of 20, he began his military       able to help make a difference    No stranger to grief after losing
            journey at Fort Polk, Louisiana.   for people; their health and      his mother at the young age of
            It was a choice that would         education and well-being were     seventeen, Adame said the death
            eventually become a career         taken care of,” he said.          of his wife was a different kind
            that would lead him on several                                       of pain, and he misses her every
            journeys, meeting many people      Adame later went on to serve      day but takes comfort in the
            of all walks of life. “I wasn’t    in Honduras, Guatemala, El        memories they shared, including
            doing much good here, just         Salvador, and Panama. In El       a trip to Hawaii they once
            partying and drinking. I wasn’t    Salvador, he taught three classes   experienced.
            going forward. So, when the        of civil affairs. He also graduated
            opportunity came up, I went,”      from five military occupation     “We can’t blame everything on
            Adame said about enlisting         specialty schools during his      God,” Adame said. “I was sad
            shortly after high school. That    service.                          when my wife passed away,
            decision transformed his life and                                    but I woke up one morning and
            altered his future, as he would    Later, he was called to serve in   wanted to be a better person, and
            then go on to spend four years in   Operation Desert Storm on a      I know He [God] wanted to make
            the military and 18 years in the   medical mission and to build      me a stronger person.”
            reserves.                          schools. He was a Platoon



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