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PRIOR TO VETERAN’S DEATH with VETERAN’S                  HAVE DD214 AVAILABLE WHEN CONTACTING:
                INPUT CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING                          VBA National Call Center: 1-800-827-1000
                                                                     Is any financial assistance available for burial or
           Locate Veteran’s DD214 discharge form.                     cremation?
           Choose photos and memorabilia for display                Is assistance or payment for the grave marker
             Begin photo enlargements, if needed.                     available?
           Establish life time-line. Write obituary.                Are spousal benefits available?
           Choose burial or cremation.                              Are financial and/or educational benefits
           Check with funeral  home for form to recover               available for family members?
              lost military medals.                                  Is emotional support for family available?
           Choose burial location. Spouse be buried there?
           If considering a national or state cemetery,        INFORMATION REGARDING BENEFITS FOR VETERANS
              begin the process with an inquiry at              Amarillo VA:  806 355-9703.
                 www.cem.va.gov / www.cem.gov.grants/state.asp   www.benefits.va.gov/benefits/
           Who will officiate the service?
           Select songs for service.
           Will you have live or recorded music? Locate
                                                                    MOST VETERANS ARE
              music CD and/or musicians.                           ELIGIBLE FOR BENEFITS.
           Choose pall bearers. Obtain contact information.       IF NOT CONNECTED WITH
           Choose person to receive flag (Funeral home will         THE VA, BEGIN THE
               obtain flag from the Post Office.)                  PROCESS AND CONTACT
              Confirm  funeral  director  will  contact              YOUR LOCAL VA.              Katherine McLamore
             veteran’s  military  branch  and/or  American                                          Kindred Hospice
             Legion  to  participate  in  funeral  service.                                    Manager of Volunteer Services

                                                                                                & We Honor Veterans Liaison



                                                                                                                               Now the grieving begins.  Here are a
                                                                                                                               Few Normal Emotions You May Feel:
                NOW THE GRIEVING BEGINS                         GRIEF IS AS INDIVIDUAL AS THE PERSON                           (Not an exhaustive List)
          Here are a Few Normal Emotions You May Feel:          However, if you are concerned that your emotions are               o   Sadness
                      (Not an exhaustive list)                  out of control for you, find a counselor, spiritual leader         o   Tearful
                                                                or bereavement professional.  You may also need a                  o   Stressed
          Sadness           Tearfulness                         group to help you process with others who are also in              o   Lack of Concentration
          Stress            Lack of Concentration               grief.                                                             o   Guilt
          Guilt             Fatigue                                                                                                o   Relieved (yes, it is normal)
          Isolation         Anxiety                             IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING:                                           o   Tired
          Overwhelmed       Numbness                                 Sleeplessness or sleeping too much                           o   Isolated
          Fear              Relief (yes, it is normal)               Big changes in eating patterns (eating too                   o   Anxious
                                                                       much or too little)                                         o   Overwhelmed
                                                                     Self–medicating with alcohol, drugs or risky                 o   Numb
                NEED A GROUP?                                          behavior                                                    o   Afraid
               THINKING ABOUT                                        Having thoughts of suicide
               VOLUNTEERING?                                                                                                   Grief is as individual as the person.   However, if
                  FOR MORE                                                                                                     you are concerned that your emotions are out of
                INFORMATION                                                      DO NOT WAIT                                   control for you, find a counselor, spiritual leader
                 806.748.1041                                            CALL YOUR PHYSICIAN OR LOCATE A                       or bereavement professional. You may also need
                                            Colleen Eppler           PROFESSIONAL WHO WILL SEE YOU QUICKLY                     a group to help you process with others who are
                                            Kindred Hospice               AND HELP YOU WITH NEXT STEPS.                        also in grief.
                                        Bereavement Coordinator
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