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While there, his duties covered   He had uncles on both sides of his
                                                  all areas of church ministry, i.e.,   family who died in their early 40s
                                                  preaching, teaching, counseling,   due to addiction.  Carl, himself, had
                                                  working with the youth,  etc.  It was   never had a drink until middle-
                                                  a great opportunity and a special   age.  But one ill-fated day, he
                                                  time in our lives.                decided that if he was going “to
                                                                                    preach against it,” he probably
                                                  One special highlight occurred    ought to know what drinking was
                                                  when Carl challenged the kids     about.  Unfortunately, he knew
                                                  of First Methodist to make a      instantly that this could, indeed,
                                                  commitment to fill the entire north   be a problem.  It did become a
                                                  side of the church sanctuary with   serious problem.  For years, his
                                                  500  junior high, high school, and   alcoholism exacted a serious toll
                                                  college  students.  They did it!  That   on his personal life as well as our
                                                  event, which happened over fifty   family life.
                                                  years ago, is still talked about today!
                                                                                    On December 12, 1982, our children
                                                  Around this time, Texas           and I put him on a plane to
                                                  Technological College hired Carl   Minnesota for the Hazelden Alcohol
                                                  (part-time) to teach courtship and   Addiction Treatment Program.   He
                                                  marriage courses.  That connection   returned to Texas Tech in January
                                                  eventually proved to be a very    with a fresh and new understanding
                                                  significant step in our lives.    of this baffling family disease
                                                                                    of addiction.  His teaching, his
                                                  The church at Albany was his third   counseling, and other areas of his
                                                  ministerial assignment.  Texas    ministry began to move in a new
                                                  Tech administrators called every   and very different direction.
                                                  semester to offer him a teaching
                                                  position at Tech.  In December    He began to work with his
                                                  1968, Carl accepted.  He taught the   department chair and the dean
                                                  following semester at Tech, driving   of his college in laying the
                                                  back and forth between Lubbock    groundwork for courses that would
                                                  and Albany in order to fulfill both   provide insight and enlightenment
                                                  obligations.                      on the nature of alcohol and drug
                                                                                    addiction.  His Courtship and
                                                  His courses in Courtship and      Marriage classes had always been
                                                  Marriage were popular electives   filled to overflowing numbers,
                                                  for Tech students.  This resulted   but these new courses in the field
                                                  in monster classes with waiting   of addiction attracted even more
                                                  lists from students who wanted his   students.  His counseling practice
                                                  classes.  At the same time, he earned   became more and more consumed
                                                  another Masters degree in the field   with addiction issues and family
                                                  of Education.  The next leg of the   despair.
                                                  journey took us to Florida State
                                                  University in 1971 for his PhD in   Carl became aware of an incredible
                                                  Psychology.                       need for a standard for licensed
                                                                                    addiction counselors.  He worked
                                                  Texas Tech called again with a    with his dean and spent time in
                                                  timely offer.  Carl was invited   Austin lobbying for a standardized
                                                  to serve as chairman of the       training program for addiction
                                                  Department of Marriage & Family   counselors.  He traveled to
                                                  Life at Texas Tech. In 1974, we   treatment programs across the
                                                  returned to Lubbock for the third   nation and studied their programs.
                                                  time.
                                                                                    He offered the courses he was
                                                  Carl had grown up with an         teaching for a number of summers
                                                  awareness that alcohol and drug   at the State University of New York
                                                  abuse were very serious problems.    and the University of Vermont.




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