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SENIOR RESOURCES





           Grief  and Loss for Seniors:


          Understanding Types of Loss and the Role of Support Groups

                                                                by Rodney L. Meeks, Director at Christian Servants Home Care Texas, LLC



                 rief and loss are universal, but   •   Loss of Social Roles and   2023 study from the Stanford Center
                 for seniors, they are profound,   Connections                     on Longevity estimated that robust
          Gdue to accumulated losses                                               social connections enhance longevity
          and aging vulnerabilities. Seniors   Retirement or peer deaths diminish   by roughly 50%, emphasizing their
          face losses like the death of loved   roles as community members,        role as the largest single factor in
          ones, health decline, independence   compounding isolation—a risk        successful aging.
          erosion, and social isolation, impacting   for loneliness and depression.
          mental and physical health. Support   Maintaining ties is crucial. Social   •   Learning Coping Strategies
          groups provide emotional validation,   isolation in older adults is associated   Many experts recommend learning
          connections, and coping strategies.   with a mortality risk comparable   mechanisms like mindfulness or
          This article explores loss types, grief   to smoking, with a 2016 study   journaling, guided by facilitators,
          impacts, and support groups' roles,   estimating a 2.42 odds ratio for   as this enhances resilience and grief
          backed by research.                 hypertension in socially isolated
                                              elderly compared to 1.49 for diabetes.  processing.
          Types of Loss in Seniors                                                 •
                                              •   Psychological and Physical          Accessibility and Formats
          •   Loss of Loved Ones                  Impacts of Grief                 Many support groups and counseling

          Seniors commonly lose spouses,      Grief manifests as sadness, anxiety,   services are available in-person,
          partners, siblings, or friends,     anger, depression, or complicated    online, or hybrid. Find support
          shrinking social circles. Spousal death   grief disorder. Physically, it worsens   tailored to the particular type of loss
          disrupts emotional, financial, and   conditions, weakens immunity,       most likely being experienced. Each
          daily routines, increasing depression   and raises cardiovascular risks   type will have its own best method of
          and cognitive decline risks, especially   like hypertension and sleep issues.   support.
          with heavy reliance on the partner.  Targeted interventions are essential.  •   Practical Recommendations
          •   Loss of Health and Physical     The Importance of Support Groups     It is important to encourage seniors to
              Function
                                              •   Emotional Validation and         join need-aligned groups; providers,
          Aging brings chronic illnesses,         Shared Experiences               family, or leaders can connect via
          mobility reduction, or sensory                                           AARP or centers. Combine these
          impairments, affecting identity     Support groups offer safe spaces     groups with counseling or an activity
          and autonomy. Inability to drive or   to express grief, offering validation   for better well-being.
          perform tasks fosters helplessness,   and reducing isolation through     Conclusion
          linking to grief, anxiety, vulnerability,   shared experiences. Participation
          and dependency.                     lowers depression and loneliness,    Grief and loss may be from death,
                                              normalizing emotions.                health loss, independence decline,
          •   Loss of Independence
                                              •   Building Social Connections      or social disconnection. Support
          Health declines often lead to                                            groups offer help through validation,
          relocating to assisted living or    Groups counteract isolation by       connections, and survival strategies,
          the dreaded Nursing Home. Such      building relationships and a sense   promoting resilience and improving
          transitions trigger responses akin to   of community, improving well-    quality of life.
          bereavement, causing distress and   being and belonging—vital for those
          withdrawal.                         bereaved of spouses or friends. A



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