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Del Wells                    Putting Himself in Other

                                                               People’s Shoes

                                                               by Jane Bromley


                                                nobody can describe completely.”
                                                He earned a commission,
                                                completed officer training at Fort
                                                Sill, Oklahoma, married Chloe in
                                                Lubbock on April 10, 1952 and
                                                drove to Mexico City for their
                                                honeymoon. They were stationed
                                                at Camp Polk, Louisiana, where
                                                they “lived in an old house with
                                                no air conditioning, and the only   Del has lived in his home for 50
                                                bathroom was on the porch.”        years, but he lost his beloved
                   el Wells is 90, but                                             Chloe 3-1/2 years ago. She had
                   the energetic and            In October 1952, Del was           suffered from Alzheimer’s for four
            Dknowledgeable gentleman            assigned to the 45  Infantry       years, and he was able to take care
                                                               th
            belies his age. He is passionate    Division as an artillery forward   of her personally until her last 14
            about the law, his convictions,     and aerial observer and was the    months when she moved into a
            and especially caring for people    commanding officer of his unit.    residential care facility just across
            who are facing the specter of       He describes his service as “just a   the street. Even then, he was able
            Alzheimer’s Disease.                matter of course.” Even though he   to be with her daily and “sing to
                                                was on the front lines the whole   her every night. Music was one of
            He was born in Lakeview, Texas      time, he doesn’t look back on that   the few things that was familiar.”
            in Hall County in 1929. He started   time with regret or sadness.  Like   He is grateful for his neighbor
            school at Littlefield, Texas but    most of his peers, Del “was a      Dr. Richard “Dick” Weddige – a
            completed most of his education     good soldier.” He was discharged   respected psychiatrist who helped
            in Anton where he graduated         in August 1953 at the rank of 1    him understand what Chloe was
                                                                          st
            from high school in 1946. Anton     Lieutenant.                        going through. “We sat on this
            was also the place where he met                                        porch many evenings, and Dick
            the lovely Chloe Herrin in 6        His first job was as a rep for an   would explain to me everything
                                     th
            grade. His education at Texas       inventory finance company,         that was going on physiologically
            Technological College included      but he “has done a little of       in her brain.”
            a summer class on Spanish           everything.” Del was a branch
            International Trade in Mexico       manager for Redi-Rain, an          Chloe, also a Tech graduate, had
            City in the summer of 1949, and     irrigation equipment company,      worked as a court reporter and
            he earned a degree in Spanish in    and went on to became CEO of       was “always very capable. We
            1950.                               that corporation, which involved   never argued. We were always
                                                a cross-country commute to Los     sweethearts,” Del said of his
                                                Angeles from ‘72 to ‘75.           beautiful wife. They raised one
                                                                                   son, Tom, also of Lubbock. The
                                                He retired 36 years ago in 1982,   couple had celebrated almost 60
                                                and he and Chloe spent over        years of marriage when Del began
                                                27 years volunteering together.    to notice some familiar signs.
                                                They always found ways to help     He had lost
                                                people who needed them. They       his mother,
                                                spent years reading to third       mother-in-
                                                graders at Posey Elementary. They   law, father-in-
            He was drafted into the army in     volunteered for the suicide hotline   law, brother-
            1950 because of the North Korean    “Contact”. He has volunteered      in-law and
            invasion of South Korea. “I’d been   with Meals on Wheels and also     an aunt to
            attending Texas Tech with lots      served as Assistant Scoutmaster    Alzheimer’s.
            of World War II veterans. The       for the Boy Scouts. He has been    He was
            country was still ‘war- minded’.    a facilitator for the Alzheimer’s   prepared for   Photo by Robert Suddarth
            It had only been five years since   Association and a hospice          it, and Dr. Weddige’s expertise
            the end of WWII. It was a period    volunteer for three years.         confirmed it. “Caring for her




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