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Del Wells Putting Himself in Other
People’s Shoes
by Jane Bromley
nobody can describe completely.”
He earned a commission,
completed officer training at Fort
Sill, Oklahoma, married Chloe in
Lubbock on April 10, 1952 and
drove to Mexico City for their
honeymoon. They were stationed
at Camp Polk, Louisiana, where
they “lived in an old house with
no air conditioning, and the only Del has lived in his home for 50
bathroom was on the porch.” years, but he lost his beloved
el Wells is 90, but Chloe 3-1/2 years ago. She had
the energetic and In October 1952, Del was suffered from Alzheimer’s for four
Dknowledgeable gentleman assigned to the 45 Infantry years, and he was able to take care
th
belies his age. He is passionate Division as an artillery forward of her personally until her last 14
about the law, his convictions, and aerial observer and was the months when she moved into a
and especially caring for people commanding officer of his unit. residential care facility just across
who are facing the specter of He describes his service as “just a the street. Even then, he was able
Alzheimer’s Disease. matter of course.” Even though he to be with her daily and “sing to
was on the front lines the whole her every night. Music was one of
He was born in Lakeview, Texas time, he doesn’t look back on that the few things that was familiar.”
in Hall County in 1929. He started time with regret or sadness. Like He is grateful for his neighbor
school at Littlefield, Texas but most of his peers, Del “was a Dr. Richard “Dick” Weddige – a
completed most of his education good soldier.” He was discharged respected psychiatrist who helped
in Anton where he graduated in August 1953 at the rank of 1 him understand what Chloe was
st
from high school in 1946. Anton Lieutenant. going through. “We sat on this
was also the place where he met porch many evenings, and Dick
the lovely Chloe Herrin in 6 His first job was as a rep for an would explain to me everything
th
grade. His education at Texas inventory finance company, that was going on physiologically
Technological College included but he “has done a little of in her brain.”
a summer class on Spanish everything.” Del was a branch
International Trade in Mexico manager for Redi-Rain, an Chloe, also a Tech graduate, had
City in the summer of 1949, and irrigation equipment company, worked as a court reporter and
he earned a degree in Spanish in and went on to became CEO of was “always very capable. We
1950. that corporation, which involved never argued. We were always
a cross-country commute to Los sweethearts,” Del said of his
Angeles from ‘72 to ‘75. beautiful wife. They raised one
son, Tom, also of Lubbock. The
He retired 36 years ago in 1982, couple had celebrated almost 60
and he and Chloe spent over years of marriage when Del began
27 years volunteering together. to notice some familiar signs.
They always found ways to help He had lost
people who needed them. They his mother,
spent years reading to third mother-in-
graders at Posey Elementary. They law, father-in-
He was drafted into the army in volunteered for the suicide hotline law, brother-
1950 because of the North Korean “Contact”. He has volunteered in-law and
invasion of South Korea. “I’d been with Meals on Wheels and also an aunt to
attending Texas Tech with lots served as Assistant Scoutmaster Alzheimer’s.
of World War II veterans. The for the Boy Scouts. He has been He was
country was still ‘war- minded’. a facilitator for the Alzheimer’s prepared for Photo by Robert Suddarth
It had only been five years since Association and a hospice it, and Dr. Weddige’s expertise
the end of WWII. It was a period volunteer for three years. confirmed it. “Caring for her
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