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“There’s no stress. I still get to do   got me all set up in a couple of
                                            all my volunteering.” She calls      days.” He is “real happy” to be in
                                            Windsong, where she lives, “the      Lubbock. His son’s family, nieces,
                                            senior dormitory.                                    nephews, and
                                            It’s coed.” It’s                                     doctors are here.
                                            obvious that                                         And Carillon is
                                            Mrs. Bray is a                                       a “wonderful
                                            people person.                                       community”.
                                            She has lived in
                                            Slaton, Lorenzo,                                     Newt Robison
                                            Clarendon and                                        was the longtime
                                            Lubbock, and “I                                      director of
                                            left a wonderful                                     personnel for
        was the greatest gift they could    neighborhood.                                        Hemphill-Wells
        give their children – to make the   We had a                                             and has been a
        decision themselves to downsize, so   basement, so we                                    Lubbock resident
        it wouldn’t have to be made later by   got to know all                                   for 64 years. He
        someone else. He and their daughter   our neighbors                                      calls himself
        Becky were able to live abroad      pretty well during                                   an introvert,
        because they didn’t have to worry   tornado season.” But “this is a new   but he likes being “out among the
        about her parents.                  chapter. I’m going to live in the    people.” Newt used to play golf, but

        Carl says that, within six months,   present.” The lively lady punctuated   his eyesight isn’t good enough for
                                                                                 that anymore, so he stays healthy
        it felt like home. Half of their    her comments by holding up a small   by walking. Carillon has extensive
        70-member Sunday school class       purse emblazoned with the phrase,    “well-maintained” grounds to
        lives in Carillon, so they see many   “Let’s make today amazing.”        explore during Lubbock’s nine
        of their old friends even more often   Jerry Brown said Canzada was      months of nice weather, and in the
        and are now able to visit whenever   the first person he met, when
        they want. They’ve maintained       he moved to the community
        lots of friendships, but also enjoy   almost one year ago. The
        making new ones. Their next-door    former football and basketball
        neighbor Evelyn Davies has become   coach had lived in New Home,
        a dear friend in a short time. “We   Lamesa, O’Donnell, Tahoka and
        absolutely love it here,” Linda said.   Albany, Texas before settling
        And the wise doctor added, “One     down to coach in Artesia, NM
        of the greatest barriers to choosing   for 49 years. His wife died 23
        to move to a community is ‘stuff’.   years ago, and eventually, his
        People don’t want to let go of it.”  children moved away. When

        Canzada Bray agreed. “My husband    he needed help, his daughter
        always said, ‘You can’t pull a      often made a 500-mile round
        U-Haul after you when you die,’     trip to tend to him. “I saw how
        but he left so much junk behind,    hard it was on them. It wasn’t
        that I had to get rid of.” She smiled   hard to leave.” Coach Brown gave   winter, Newt logs his miles indoors.
        at the memory, but referring to the   away or donated almost everything   He also enjoys the workout classes
        choice of letting go of possessions,   in his house. “I only brought a few   available for residents. He lost his
        added, “It’s better when you make   things, but I do find myself looking   wife just two years ago and says
        the decision yourself.” She loves   for things I thought I still had. My   moving to Carillon was not a hard
        the freedom of living at Carillon.   daughter did all the packing and    choice. “I would be lonesome in




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